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Getting Ready for the Wedding

Friday May 22 and Saturday May 23, 2015

 

Pam, a close family friend,  has already put her wonderful pictures on facebook so this may be old news. Those of you who know me well know I don’t do facebook but I may have to change my mind since it is SO much easier than blogging and SO much quicker. 

But it may be harder for me to go back to other’s posts in future years, so here’s my version of the the first part of Carrie’s wedding week-end.  After the low 90’s heat of last week and the prediction for the same for this week, it is amazing what absolutely perfect weather they have for all 3 days of their celebration.   They are starting out charmed on their life together.

 

 

FRIDAY

 

First - the rehearsal.  We all rendezvous at the Gramercy Mansion at 2pm.  It’s an elegant house, north of Baltimore, Maryland, on beautiful wooded grounds with fantastic gardens.

 

 

 

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The wedding is outside, the weather is gorgeous, the venue is perfect.  We practice the walk down several times, the musicians play and sing.  Carrie has chosen Pachelbel’s Canon in D for her processional.  It was the song her father and I had at our wedding oh those many years ago.  Very sweet of her!  Matt does an outstanding job on the guitar.   There are many Matts in this wedding.  One is the groom.  We call him Matthew.  One is the guitarist, We call him Matt.  One is a groomsman, Matthew’s close friend.  We call him Matt C.

 

Matt and Debbie

 

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rehearsing the walk

 

 

We finish up around 3:30 and are hosted by Matthew’s parents, Joan and Bob, at their beautiful home nearby until the rehearsal dinner at 5:00.

 

 

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The dinner is also generously hosted by Joan and Bob. The company is excellent, the food is delicious, and the bananas foster lights up the room nearly as much as all the smiles.   We toast the bride and groom.

 

 

 

 

 

Our host and hostess, Bob and Joan Iwanowski

 

 

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SATURDAY

 

The big day is here.  Carrie and her girls arrive around noon at the Renaissance Salon to have their hair and make up done. Manicure and pedicure were yesterday.  I notice the wedding day thing has gotten a lot more complicated since David and I had a simple wedding, no frills, no salon, in Williamsburg in 1978.

It’s all quite exciting. 

 

The bride and matron of honor, Jessica Green Smith,  make some last minute checks.  Everything appears to be “on schedule”IMG_4814

 

 

Kate VanDerbeek and Eleanor Hemmings wait their turn for make up.  They have already had their hair done.  Looks like the bride is wisely relaxing while she can.

 

 

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Proud Mother of the Bride.

 

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Can they really make Alyssa Bowlby more glamorous than she already is?

 

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A little champagne will add to the festivities. 

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At first, Carrie and I both think the make up looks a little much but clearly they know what they are doing here.  Later…..with the dress, the hair and in the photographer’s photos, it looks fantastic.

 

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Kate and Carrie.  Friends since second grade.

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Kim works her wonders on Carrie.

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I think she likes it.

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So elegant!   It’s just fantastic Kim.

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There’s an audience, including me and my camera, for the addition of the veil.

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The salon has provided a private room for all our things and some nibbles.  Eleanor has brought delicious sandwiches.  Thank you Eleanor, I never even thought about the fact that we’d have no time for lunch.  Carrie has the best friends.

 

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Time to head out the Gramercy but not before a few more checks…..Jess, Carrie, Eleanor.  What did the bridal party do before cell phones?

 

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Time to meet the photograph and get dressed for the 6:00 ceremony. 
Everyone looks and feels fantastic. 
We are so excited.  What a great day! 


The wedding deserves its own post and that’s just what it will get.
Later! 
Maybe if I wait long enough I can use some of the amazing professional photos taken.

Ruby’s New Lenses and Mother’s Day

Sunday May 10, 2015
Charlottesville, Virginia, Greenfield Mountain Farm and the Blue Ridge Parkway

 

 

During the week after Carrie’s shower we both get some well deserved rest.  Not that we do nothing of course but not much.   One thing we accomplish during the week is to install Ruby’s new lenses.  Poor Ruby has had serious cataracts for a long time.  She’s had the clean up surgery several times and it just never lasts.  So it is time for lens transplants.

I order her new lenses from Amazon and of course they come during the shower clean up week.  So this Wednesday the installation begins. 

Stupid us, we do not bother to watch a youtube video on it.  How hard can it be right?  Unscrew one and pop in the other.  I’d read someone’s blog sometime during the past couple of years and they said it was a snap but I couldn’t remember who said it or what model car they were doing it on. 

 

 

 

Getting the hidden screws out proved to be an exercise in frustration for David.  Finally I go inside and watch a video.  Duh – for this year Honda Accord you have to take the bumper off.  Once we figure that out, it is much easier to do but it still takes at least twice as long as it should have because of the initial difficulty. 

Learn as you go.  Now we know everything about doing it but it may well be another 10 years before she needs surgery again and of course by then we will have forgotten everything we now know. But we’ll still own her since we don’t believe in buying new cars or RVs for that matter or in putting them out to pasture before they can’t take another breath.

 

I don’t have any pictures of the original frustrating hour or so trying to get the passenger’s light out.  But once things are going better, I do think to get the camera so you can see some of it after the bumper is off and especially the difference between the fogged lenses and the new lenses. 

Our advice is, forget trying to clean them with any of those “sure to work” products.  They do work and they last a few months and you are right back where you started.  Just suck it up and replace the lights.  I think the two of them were less than $125.  After today,we can  say it’s not that hard to do.

Now if we could just give her a bath and get all the mud off and not get anymore on, she could bat her pretty eyes.

 


 

Sunday, the week after the shower, is Mother’s Day.  Carrie isn’t here of course.  She has just driven down last week-end and we’ll be driving up in two more for the wedding in just under 2 weeks.  But David and I go out for the afternoon and drive up to Otter Creek on the Blue Ridge Parkway.  We want to check out the camping relatively near the farm where Winnona has actually never been.  We’re not sure yet whether we will be able to leave Virginia this summer but there is a lot we haven’t seen here even if we can’t.  And many places we’ve not been in a long time and where Winnona has never been.

 

The drive up is through Nelson County which is the area we have lived in for over 30 years.  It’s absolutely beautiful and today is no exception.  We leave the farm, go two miles and take US 151 to County Road 778 and then to US 60 to the Parkway.  Those in the know, realize that you don’t have to get on and off the Parkway only at the beginning and the end.  But you do have to be able to go up on some pretty small and pretty steep roads. 

Definitely not for Winnona or probably for any RV or trailer.   But fun for us.   Winnona will have to start at mile zero at the Rockfish gap, also fairly close to the farm, if she wants to go down the Parkway.   Today we came in at mile 45. 

Along the way through the valley, it looks like it might rain but by the time we get to the top, the skies have cleared.

We visit the campground where we find at least two spots right on Otter Creek that would suit Winnona.  Fairly level but totally shaded which would mean we would have minimal solar in this no hook up campground.  Most National Parks have no hook ups and we don’t mind that at all as long as there is enough light for the solar panels.  The other problem with Otter Creek this time of year is that its elevation is only 694 feet.   When it’s 86 degrees in the foothills like it is today, it isn’t much better up here although that’s where the shade from the trees does help.  What to do……what to do.

  

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There is a 3.5 mile trail one way from the campground to the visitor’s center but at our hiking pace, we don't think we have enough time to do 7 miles round trip and spend some time doing the short trails at the VC as well.   Wish we’d started out sooner but we just were playing everything by ear and that didn’t happen.

So instead of the hike (darn), we drive to the VC and enjoy our lunch on a picnic table overlooking the mighty James River which cut a gap through the mountains in this “low spot”.  This River Gap was used by Native Americans, buffalo (yes buffalo in Virginia), settlers moving west over the Blue Ridge, and the rail road. 

The James River is the largest river in Virginia and flows across the entire state from its beginnings at the headwaters of the Cowpasture and and Jackson Rivers in Bath and Highland Counties in the western part of the state.  It flows through its gap and from here to Lynchburg,  Richmond and eventually into the Chesapeake Bay.  It is the largest tributary to the Chesapeake Bay and at 340 miles is one of the longest rivers in America that begins and ends in the same state.   We love our James and before buying the farm looked very hard for property along its banks.  Sadly, not in our budget at the time. 

 

 

 

 

 

The visitor center and the picnic area are located where Otter Creek flows into the James.  So after lunch, we take a short stroll along the creek.  We could have walked along the creek up to Otter Lake.  I meant to ask the ranger in the VC if it is a man made lake which is what I’m suspecting but I forgot to ask.

It is wonderful to be in the cool shade of the trees next to the water and out of the hot summer like sun.   The early ephemerals are all past but we do see some Solomon’s Seal with its cute little bells hiding underneath.  

 

 

 

Large rock formations on the other side of creek reflect in the water.  The beauty is hard for the camera to capture.

 

 

Although I could have walked on and on along this path, we want to be sure to see the other two attractions here so we reluctantly turn back.   The Blue Ridge Parkway bridge over the James is quite a structure.  The upper level is for the cars and the lower for pedestrians walking over to the historic James River/Kanawha Canal.

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We head over there but take the Trail of Trees path before crossing the bridge.  You know we’re big tree people so first things first.  History will have to wait.  Natural history first.

 

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The amazing thing about the Blue Ridge is its seemingly never ending diversity.  On this half mile walk there are over 2 dozen trees identified.  It’s impossible to know them all. 

But today the big stars are the giant chestnut oaks which seem to be everywhere and the smaller understory Fringe tree which perfumes the air all around us.  The size of the chestnut oak leaves is amazing.  They dwarf my hand.

 

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Each tree has a plaque, like this one about the fringe tree, so you can easily identify them if you don’t recognize them yourself.  Fringe is a great name for this tree which we see everywhere around us in glorious bloom in the understory.

 

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Also in bloom is the fire pink.

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Along the way we enjoy great views of the beautiful James and the mountains it cuts through along its way.

 

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Looking upstream.  What a glorious day it has turned into.

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Looking downstream toward the bridge.

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A smaller flowering tree is the Deerberry with its little white bells which in July will turn into purple berries too sour for us but enjoyed by grouse, fox and turkey although interestingly enough not so much by deer we are told on the plaque.

 

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I love these little flowers of one of many variety of viburnum.  Too many varieties for me to identify this one and no sign but I really like it.

 

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We have to be careful not to pay all our attention to the trees, flowers and plants right at the edge of the path.  Back a bit further the rhododendron and mountain laurel are just beginning to flower.  In my mind, they are the spring crown jewels of the Blue Ridge.  The Parkway is a great place to follow their blooming for weeks.  Some Rhododendron are bright purple.  This one is more pale and subtle.

 

 

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The path crosses an unnamed stream before we head up and away from the river to circle back on this loop trail.

 

Our last river views from here.

 

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Looks like Solomon’s Seal but it’s not. This is the False Solomon’s Seal. Rather than bells underneath, it has a plume at the tip of its leaves which look the same as the real Solomon’s Seal. I love that we see them both today.

 

 

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Again back off the trail is the quiet and beautiful Mountain Laurel.  It’s just beginning its bloom.  These woods will be alive with it and the Rhododendron in a week or two.

 

 

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As we switch back up the hill we cross the little creek again higher up and continue our tree identification hike.

 

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Here’s my personal favorite of all my home state trees – the majestic white oak.  If Oaks are the king of trees here then the White Oak is the king of kings.  Most of the antique furniture in our farmhouse, tables, rockers, hoosiers, cupboards, chairs, are made of white oak.  Early settlers learned it was the all purpose tree, great for building homes, fences, furniture, baskets, weapons, shingles or shakes, tool handles and of course great for SHADE.  I’ve made several white oak egg baskets myself.  Love this tree!!

 

 

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At the “top” of our hike we see a fenced off area with headstones.  It is the Putt’s Cemetery.  Apparently they were the settlers on this land before the parkway.  There are 3 graves here.  Two Putts from the 19th century and one Peters from the early 20th century.  The stones were actually easier to read in the pictures I took with my camera than they were in real life.  I wonder what their life was like here on this land beside the James.

 

 

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We come to the end of the trail and head across the nicest pedestrian bridge we’ve ever been on.  David laughs at the size of the hand rails which dwarf his hands.  The James is pretty famous around here for spectacular flooding as towns down stream can attest, particularly those devastated by the 1969 Hurricane Camille some of whose worst damage occurred around 10 miles from the farm.  It is clear the engineers were taking no chances with the height and size of this bridge.

 

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I can’t get enough of the views – up the river.

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Down the river.

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Across the bridge to the other side we find the canal.

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I catch a glimpse of the VC from this other side of the river.  It looks cute tucked away on the hillside.

 

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An easy path along the river leads to the Battery Creek Lock of the James River/Kanawha Canal.

 

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The lock was built in 1848.  It is 15 feet wide, 21 feet deep top to bottom and 100 feet between the gates.  It lowered or lifted boats 13 feet allowing them passage to and from the river.  The bottom is covered with original pine planking and the walls are of local stone.   This becomes pretty amazing when you see them up close.

 

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In these pictures you can see, at a distance and then more closely, the original pine planking atop the spillway.

 

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The size of the stones and the curving design of the lock amaze us. 

 

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The train which put the canal out of business by 1880 runs by as we watch.  You can see how close it is to the canal path there through the trees in the middle of the picture.  The trains have been replaced by trucks and cars now but I admit to wishing we would go back to this mode of transporting our goods.  Trains, not the canal.

 

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Originally the gates would have been opened and closed by large beams which are missing from this exhibit.  We did see them and a demonstration of their opening and closing of a lock at Cuyahoga National Park in Ohio last spring.   You can see the metal parts where they would go in the picture below along with an even better view of the curved design of the lock stones.

 

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The lock water flows back into the James.

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Time for us to head back to the bridge and Ruby.

 

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Along the way we notice a huge red maple which, in our focus on seeing the lock, we missed as we walked by.  What a great spot along the river he has.  Today the current is calm enough that you just might be able to get in the river here and float down to the end of the lock and get out.  It’s hot enough that I might have tried it had I seen this earlier.  I always have a swim suit in the car just in case there is swimmable or floatable water..  But we have more than an hour drive back and it’s less than that until dark.   Next time!

 

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One last look at the Blue Ridge over the fields of wildflowers next to the James River.

 

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Last looks at the James and the beautiful skies reflected in its waters.

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Before we leave I take some pictures of the information on the kiosks at the Visitor Center to give a sense of where we are.   This is a map of the Blue Ridge Parkway in Virginia.  About 215 miles of the total 469 miles of the parkway are in Virginia.

Our farm is just east of Humpback Rocks which we can see to the west from our back yard.  We often watch the sun set over those rocks.

If Winnona were to come here, she’d have to start there at the top of the map at Afton Mountain and drive down the parkway 60 miles.   Afton Mountain is the South end of the Skyline Drive through Shenandoah National Park and the Northern beginning of the Blue Ridge Parkway.

 

 

Here is a closer look at the elevation in Virginia.  You can see that the river has truly worn a gap in our mountains.  They may not be as tall and rugged as the Rockies but their age and diversity can’t be topped.  Many scientists believe they are the oldest mountains on Earth. 

 

 

It’s another beautiful drive home through a parkway tunnel and down down off the mountains.

 

 

We stop to get this shot of the sun being squeezed between the returning rainclouds and the mountains.

 

 

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It has been a lovely Mother’s Day and my favorite way to spend it, out in the natural world.
I only wish Carrie and Matthew had been here to enjoy it with us.