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Henry David Thoreau

Last beach Days

Saturday June 16, 2012
Oscar Scherer State Park Site 89
Osprey, Florida

 

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Well you certainly did have comments about my musing on why do a blog if no one comments.   So now I know you are out there.  I hope you won’t go into lurking again.   And I hope those responsible for all the page view numbers will come on out and make yourselves known.

 

I may have already mentioned that I have kept a personal journal daily for over 30 years so I have excellent records of my full time life and all the lives before that.  For the full time life I also have at least a few daily pictures as well. They are actually organized and easy to get to so any time I want to check on something, it isn’t that hard to do.  Thus the blog is to keep me connected to other folks interested in full timing or beaches or hiking or kayaking or any of the other things we do or did.   So hearing from those who read the blog about what they think and what they would like to know is my real motivation for doing it.

 

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These are the last beach days sadly.  And also the final beach pictures for those missing the beach.  Hope you like them.  Hope there aren’t TOO many.  J


I spend as much of the last 3 days at the beach as possible going over early, about 7:15 on the days I don’t run and about 9:15 on the days I do.

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Each day I get a great parking place, usually in the shade, pick out my spot close to the water, set up, swim out to the buoy and talk with the cormorant if he is there.  I swim back, run in the water parallel to the beach a mile or so and then I run back to my spot.  When I get back, I have breakfast usually an orange and peanut butter toast.  I write in my journal and read until the people watching gets good.  It’s just amazing what you can see.  Around 12:30, I  go back for lunch with David and bring him back to the beach for part of the afternoon. 

 

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The gulf is so varied.  On Thursday it is very windy.  GREAT waves.  The yellow flag is out.  I put the TIBU far into the ground so it won’t blow away.  This works but it flap flap flaps in a way the WBBU never did.  But then TIBU is some synthetic fabric and WBBU was a serious canvas.  The waves are big for the gulf and steady.  I wonder if the wind will pick up even more at its usual afternoon time and get even stronger.  

 

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On Friday the gulf is like glass.  The water just laps the shore.
I arrive after 9. 

 

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There is already one young woman in a black dress, her blonde hair pulled back in a pony tail, sitting on the shoreline on a towel or blanket.   She sits there for a very long time just staring out and down.  She seems to have a journal,  at points I wonder if she is meditating.  She stays for a while even as people begin to come and walk the beach.  They show up earlier and in bigger numbers.  I look over at one point and she is gone.

 

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For the second day in a row someone has brought a live shell up out of the water.  I go over as they set it down on the shore and stare at it waiting to watch it move.  Mother, father, 2 daughters.  I say,  like I did yesterday, he’ll die without water.  But this time, I just stand there.  They move him slightly closer to the water.  he doesn't move.  They move him closer still.  A wave washes him back in.  He’s high and dry again.  I stand there and watch.  My disapproval evident.  I say nothing.  Finally the father takes him just beyond the small drop off made by the waves rushing up and pulling back and sets him in 18” of water.  I wait.  Someone else will just find him and do it all over.  What is the matter with these people that they think all creatures are nothing but curiosities to entertain them.  So despite the fact that I have just gotten out of the water and rinsed the salt off and have on my t[shirt, I go in, pick up the shell and take him out over my head and drop him.  I hope I’m not too late.

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As I come out of the water, down the beach comes a woman and her 3 year old son.  She’s in a string bikini and at least 7 months maybe 8 months pregnant.  Her skin is all completely browned and her belly button looks like a cap in the middle of the mound.  How things have changed in 100 years.  In 1912 I’m not sure women even went outside their homes when pregnant and surely not without a coat or cape to cover them.  Now they bare it all.  why?  why not??

 

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The live shell couple and their daughters turn to sand castle building. The daughters are involved for a few minutes at the  beginning but then the parents appear to take over the castle.  The father works especially hard while the mother brings him water and the two girls are no where to be found.   They are playing in the water.   Later the mother takes the girls’ picture with the castle.

 

 

Umbrellas are blowing over.  People are running after them.  But mine does not.  Of course I don’t leave it opened up when I go in the water which is when most of the others are nearly lost.

 

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Saturday I’m on the beach at 7:30.  The water is calm and warm this morning but it’s breezy.  The swimmers are out.   They are able to swim so well.  Not zig zagging or going on an angle but just straight parallel to the shore.  almost perfectly.  Stroke, Stroke, Stroke Breathe.  The women seem to have a slower pace than the men and don’t stop as often and when they do, they just change strokes for a short period and then return to what I always called the American Crawl.  They wear skull caps and goggles.   They are serious swimmers.  I can see the caps keep your hair out of your eyes.  I wonder if they help keep water out of your ears??  I think I’d like to take swimming lessons and have a good and easy stroke.  Swimming is great exercise and this is a perfect place to swim.  Not sure how lessons would fit into my life thought.

 

 

 

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An elderly woman helps an elderly man into the water.  He takes his walker until he is up to his hips.   She then holds on to him until he’s up to his chest although she almost seems to be holding him back more than helping him at that point.  She puts the walker back up on shore and they float in the water together.   Two white head lying back.  I wonder if they have had long and happy lives together.  They don’t seem to say a word. 

 

 

 

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The snorkelers are out laughing and swimming around looking down.  Some clearly know what they are doing and are completely covered in the water, long sleeve shirts and all.  Others have flaming red sunburned backs from being face down in the water for so long.

 

 

 

 

 

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A brassy blonde with straw like hair comes out with a flat lounger in a thong bikini.  She goes through a ritual of putting the chair out, a towel over it, sun lotion on her feet but no where else and lays down facing the sun, away from the water.  She puts a towel over her face.  I guess it’s her eyes she’s protecting.

 

 

 

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A nice looking black man runs down the beach and eventually back.   Later I see this same man go into the water and start swimming laps.  He must be in great physical shape.

 

 

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The elderly woman goes back in the water alone after she helps her husband?  her companion?? ashore.

 

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A father plays chase with his twin daughters running down the beach in slow motion.  As they squeal in glee he says I’m going to get you.  They are maybe 4.  I hope they will remember these fun times with their dad.  Tomorrow is father’s day.

 

 

 

 

I see a very strange swimming outfit.  But hey, this is clearly a day for people watching.

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And then the flaxen haired sun bather gets up for to take a walk down the beach.  Times have definitely changed on Gulf beaches.

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Is the patrol out to check on the swimmers?  Or check out the walkers??

 

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Boaters of all sorts are out.

 

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The noodles are out.

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The strange swim attire is moving up the beach.

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And then I get it.  He spends a lot of time in the sun, he’s nearly completely covered. 

 

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I go back to get David in the afternoon and we return with Gordon and Kim of The Gypsy Wife fame.  If you didn’t read that blog about their fabulous bus, check it out here.  They have been in a site about 10 down from us all week and we didn’t know it. How could I have missed that bus in my running.  Must be those books on tape.  I’ve run this campground so many times I no longer see it.

 

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We spend a lot of time in the water this afternoon and at about 4:00 one of those big breezes that has cropped up all afternoon and given other umbrella holders fits including Kim and Gordon just snaps the TIBU off at the neck. Well at least we have all the parts and can return it.  But for what?  Maybe a sportbrella that we can anchor down although I don’t like it used as a tent.  It’s too low for David’s big chair and it’s too confining.  But that’s a trip and decision for another day.  It’s too late today.  We intend to go back for dinner and then return to see the drumming down of the sun one last time.  But we both are too tired to return.   We have a big day of moving back to Lithia tomorrow. 

 

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Another Wednesday

Wednesday June 13, 2012
Oscar Scherer State Park Site 89
Osprey, Florida

 

Whew is it hot……..

I wake up before sunrise and cannot believe it is 75 degrees.  I drag myself outside and start my jog around the park.  Today I am wearing only a running bra and my shorts. No one is out but me and it is TOO HOT for a shirt.

I’m wrung out when I finish and have used up all my energy.  David is having a bad day.  Yesterday’s zometa left him with difficulty sleeping last night and major fatigue today.   We do a lot of nothing.  I struggle to post a blog about the past 3 days and David naps. 

 

 

The day is slipping away from me.

 

It’s time to do the 6 month changing of all the water filters.  So I drive a couple of miles north of the park to pick up a new outdoor spigot filter and a few other items we need including some cocoa butter for David’s feet and hands which are showing more signs of peripheral neuropathy. 

 

Now some lunch and then the beach.

 

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I return and fix us some lunch.  Around 2:00 I head over to the beach.  David naps again.  As usual the beach is wonderful.  It Hot hot hot and humid everywhere else.  Enough to just melt you almost instantly.  But here at the beach the breeze is cool and the water refreshing.  That’s my cockeyed self portrait sitting in my chair with my beach hat on just after coming in from a great time in the waves.  I wish I could just throw up a tent, sleep right here and never leave.

 

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Burying my feet  in the sand gives them a 100% SPF reading.  That sun is surely powerful.

 

 

 

 

I’ve always been an east coast ocean lover. 

I want water I can swim in and I want waves.  I always thought that the gulf was where the old people went.  Well now that I’m one of them I can see why.  You can have an almost lake like atmosphere in the mornings and then in the afternoons often the wind picks up and there are waves to play in.  Not waves to knock you down or pull you under.  Not waves to surf on or even boogie board  but waves to jump in and float over.  I still love the ocean and if it were closer, I”d be there, but I’ve developed a real appreciation for the Gulf as well.

 

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Surf boards and boogie boards may be the gear for the ocean but I’ve noticed in the gulf that hats, sunglasses and noodles are more common.  I was really surprised at the hats and sunglasses when I first came to the Gulf.  I would never have worn either in the ocean, they would have been gone in a heartbeat.

 

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I return in time for dinner which is a smorgasbord of leftovers.

 

After dinner we get all the filters changed. 

 

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Because this one at the spigot is connected and disconnected, it is the one hardest to get not to leak.  Pliers does the trick.

 

 

 

 

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We changed this whole house filter on Sunday when we got here since we already had a spare.

Notice its handsome home made stand.  David has twice driven off without the stand so now he’s come up with an easy replacement. 

 

 

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And finally the inside PUR water filter pitcher to filter it one last time.  Pure water is something we can at least try to control unlike the impure air we are all breathing.  Wipe off the inside of your windshield in your car or RV.  Use a white cloth and take a look at what you find.   That stuff is in your lungs too. 

I wonder if I’m the only one who filters my water 3 times before I’m willing to drink it.

 

 

We seem to be in the doldrums.

As we head off to bed we are both rather glum.  David hasn’t felt well for the past two days and is tired of not feeling well.  I feel like I”m suspended in waiting.  Not much to blog about here these days.  I can see why the number of comments is down and wonder if I just should take a break until there is really something going on.  I haven’t figured out how they do it those folks who always have something to say even if they haven’t done much of anything or gone anywhere and people have lots of comments to make about it.  We’re both feeling sorry for ourselves.  He has a lot more reason to than I do.

Springs and Shells

Sunday June 10 - Tuesday June 12, 2012
Oscar Scherer State Park Site 89
Osprey, Florida

 

SUNDAY

Today is moving day.  We’ve been at Lithia Springs for 14 days so we have to move out. We aren’t really much in the mood for it especially after the weather has cleared up and we’d like to get out on the river.  So we didn’t get things ready last night.  And we do decide to replace the broken spring and its mate before we leave.   So here’s a quick primer in jack spring replacement.   These are the sorts of things David loves to do.  The ones he can do himself and they aren’t too difficult.

 

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David gets the tools and a plan for getting under the coach given its GREAT parallel parking job right next to the fence so we can have the best view of the river.  He really can put this rig anywhere he wants it. 

But you would know that the spring which breaks wouldn’t be on the EASY to get to side.

 

I raise the jacks and he uses a crowbar to get this one all the way up.

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one old one off, one old one still on

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He gets them both off using a very large old wooden screwdriver.

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The spring has been dipped in epoxy, can you see it?

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That’s great for sealing it from rust but the coils have to be separated.

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Ok so now let’s get this new one on.
Sorry for the bald head glare.  J

 

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Very big wooden handled screwdriver makes this easier.  One on, one to go

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Two new springs!  And we have another “spare” set Just in case.

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Even with the “repair”, we are still out of the site by the noon deadline though we have yet to visit the dump station or the parking lot to put the dolly on the RV and the car on the dolly.   At the dump station I decide to try a new tank cleaning process in hopes that I might be able to clean our sensors.  It really is nice to know whether your tanks are half full or more especially with boondocking.  Our black tank always says full and the gray always says 2/3rds full.

So we empty both tanks, put 10 gallons of water back in each one along with 4 Caps of Calgon and 2 Calgon Caps of Dawn dishwashing liquid.   I’ve read various versions of this technique on several forums and thought we might as well give it a try. According to the instructions, you then drive 350 miles but I’d have to be Paul Dahl to do that.  This is only a 70 mile drive but it is what it is.  And it’s nearly 1:00 by the time we are actually going over the last speed bump on our way out of the park.  If you have tanks sensors that don’t work and have been able to fix that some way, please let me know

 

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We are going to Oscar Scherer again for our last trip to the beach before the transplant. 

When we pull in, there are very few people in the park.  Gee I wonder why?  Temperature at 92 degrees maybe??   But we are able to get site 89 again with its river front view.  Can you see the river here??

 

 

 

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I set up my laptop in the passenger’s seat so I can work on the blog and look out the window.  Very cool!  I can read the comments and look out the window at the river.

 

 

 

 

MONDAY

I’m up this morning running and it is HOT and humid and I can hardly wait to get back and have some breakfast and leave for the beach.  But lots of “business” gets in the way and we don’t get there until about 3 and only stay for a couple of hours but tomorrow is a different plan.

 

 

 

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FINALLY, a beautiful blue sky puffy white cloud day!  HOT but no rain in sight.

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And warm warm warm gulf waters to swim in.  With just the right size waves.  Sure am glad we could come for this one last week.

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TUESDAY

Today David has to drive back to Brandon for a medical appointment.  We had intended to move this one but because he is at the end of the induction phase of treatment and has to have an infusion of zometa it became too hard to do.  So rather than cancel the week at the beach, we decide that 65 miles isn’t too far to drive for the morning’s appointment with his Hematologist Dr. David Wright and for this bone strengthening drug.   Most myeloma patients have terrible problems with bone lesions and pain.  David has had none of this so far and we want to keep it that way.  I volunteer to drive him but he says he is feeling well enough to go alone.

 

When we are near a beach I usually get up early and go straight to the shore for the morning and come back for lunch.  This is on the days I don’t have to run first thing to avoid the heat.  So David drops me off at Nokomis Beach at 8am and goes on to Brandon.

Here’s what I find when I get here.   SIGH………just beautiful!

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I set up my spot.  I don't put the umbrella up YET and start off to walk the detritus line and enjoy the shells.

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Rather than swim to the buoy this morning I try running parallel to the shore in the water.  I run south maybe half a mile and back.  Later in the morning I run north a little further and back.  It sure beats running on pavement.  My knees love it and the view is WAY better.  I like this form of exercise.

I run, read, check blog comments on my phone (yes I’m addicted to your comments) and repeat.

About noon David calls and says he is on his way back.  He comes down and we have our lunch on the shore and stay another couple of hours.   He gets in the water with his kayak hat on.  He’s a real fashionista for sure.  But the hat actually doesn’t look too bad on him.  He kind of blends in with the fishermen and for a man as sick as he is, he’s looking pretty good.  Hope the zometa doesn’t ZAP his energy for tomorrow.  We’ll see.

 

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